" />

Loving Big Cities

by Adam Seper on January 10, 2011

Manhattan Skyline, New York City

There aren't many better skylines in the world than New York's

Big cities.  I love them.  With a population of around 2.5 million people, my hometown of St. Louis, Missouri is not a small town, but it  certainly doesn’t compare to New York, London, or Bangkok.  Even though I grew up in a city where public transport is all but non-existent, a car is pretty much mandatory, and food, dining, and drinking choices, while many, are very spread out, I have a fascination with giant cities.

On our year long RTW trip, some of our favorite places were the giant cities.  Lima, La Paz, Buenos Aires, Santiago, Bogota, Bangkok, Hanoi, Saigon, we loved pretty much all we came across (sorry Delhi, I still don’t really like you very much).

My love of giant, bustling metropolises was confirmed yet again around the New Year as we made our way to New York City to visit friends and celebrate the New Year with my favorite band at Madison Square Garden.

Times Square , New York, NYE 2011

Times Square , New York, NYE 2011

It had been over seven years since our last visit to the Big Apple.  Back then, in 2003, with the exception of Chicago, a great city in its own right, we had never been to a massive city like New York before.

I fell in love with it almost immediately.  The hustle.  The bustle.  The food.  The noise.  The people.  The food.  The chaos.  The food.  The subways.  The buses.  The food.  The edge.  The crowds.  And did I mention the food?

All of it, everything about it, I loved it.  Coming from a city where we literally have to drive EVERYWHERE, it was amazing to me to be able to step out the doors of our hotel and have options for everything within walking distance.  Italian, Indian, Pizza, Greek, Middle Eastern, Chinese, Colombian, Thai, Vietnamese, Venezuelan, and pretty much any ethnic food I could ever imagine was at our fingertips.

Radio City Music Hall, New York City, NY, New Year's Eve

Radio City Music Hall

But it wasn’t just the food options that appealed to me (though those were important-hey, what can I say, I love food).  It was the energy and feel of the city that I loved.  I know it sounds weird, but I love a lot of the things that people hate about big cities.  I love that everyone walks fast.  I love that you get annoyed looks from locals for sauntering around the sidewalks.  I love that no one smiles on the subway.  I love the dirt and grime.  I just love the chaos of it all, which is why cities like Bangkok and Saigon were some of my favorites.

Don’t get me wrong, I also love the laid back nature of big cities like Buenos Aires, or small, sleepy towns like Cafayate.  I love nature and green space, too.  But it’s simply hard to beat the melting pot that is New York City.

This time around, it was the plethora of cultures we encountered that really had me excited.  It had me remembering our trip and realizing that this is the true reason that New York City is one of the greatest places on Earth.  Walking around Astoria in Queens and hearing a number of languages that weren’t English.  Seeing signs in Arabic and Spanish had me longing to go on another international adventure.  Talking with a native Colombian server about her country, one of our favorites in the world.  All were things that had me falling in love with New York City all over again.

While I may never live in a giant city like New York, cities like it will always appeal to me.  New York reminded me yet again why it is that I love travel.  I simply love to experience and learn about other cultures.  New York itself has one of the most interesting cultures around, and the cornucopia of ethnic groups just adds to the major appeal.

Are you from a smaller city or town?  What are your thoughts on big cities like New York?  For those native New Yorkers or those hailing from a big city, do the things I love get annoying to you after a while?  I’d love to hear from you in the comments below!

Share and Enjoy:
  • Twitter
  • StumbleUpon
  • RSS
  • del.icio.us
  • Facebook
  • http://twitter.com/OrdinaryTravelr Ordinary Traveler

    You give many good reasons to visit big cities, but for some reason I tend to shy away from crowded places. I can handle a couple of days in a big city, and that's about it. :)

  • http://twitter.com/budgettravelsac Jeremy Branham

    Like you, I am a big fan of big cities. However, I don't like big cities in the US very much. Maybe it's because I live here, hate traffic, and many of the cities in the US lack really good transportation options. I love cities in Europe though and how easy it is to get around. I've never been to NYC but not sure it's my cup of tea. Again, not to say I don't like big cities but it's a much different experience abroad!

  • http://www.yTravelBlog.com/ yTravelBlog

    I love cities- just the vibrancy and the options available. I love walking around, knowing that no one knows you, there is such freedom in that. I come from a small town where everyone knows everyone and their business. You can't walk anywhere in public without running into someone you know and most of the time don't want to talk to. And there are no options here. Coffee shops close at 4pm. Craig and I now spend a lot of time in Sydney.
    New York is one of my favourite cities. There is no place like it.

  • http://walkingtouradvisor.com/blog/ Senafp

    I grew up in NYC and as a residence of Manhattan, I saw it in a different way. It was home to me and seeing Times Square so many times and Rockefeller Center so many times and other places one tends to take things for granted. But now when I go back to NYC and visit places where I grew up, it is such a pleasure to visit again and want to explore what has changed and what remained the same!

    Thank you for sharing your adventure to the Big Apple and that you fell in love with NYC!

  • http://atrampabroad.com Amy

    New York is one of my favorite cities in the world. There is absolutely nowhere like it!

  • http://www.worldtravelforcouples.com/a-different-side-of-new-york-city/ A Different Side of New York City |

    [...] fondness for big bustling cities should be no secret to anyone who comes to this site with any regularity.  We love big cities so [...]

  • http://www.baconismagic.ca Ayngelina

    Although I'm from the largest city in Canada I haven't really enjoyed the cities in Latin America, except for Bogota. Going to go look for your posts on Lima as I'm heading there Sunday.

  • http://www.globotreks.com Norbert

    What can I say, I love big cities and I LOVE New York! :)

  • http://www.zefwebdesign.co.uk Jozef Maxted

    Theres always an electric atmosphere in big cities, my parents just got back from New York too and loved every minute. There is soo much to do and see!

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    I totally understand that. I'm the kind of person who is impatient and antsy at times, so a big, bustling, hectic city just fits my personality. That being said, I do love quiet, out of the way places, particularly outdoorsy places, so go figure. I have never actually lived in a big, bustling city, so while I think I would love it, who knows?

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    What you are describing is exactly how NYC is. It's soooooooo easy to get around on the buses and subway, and they both go everywhere. Same with Chicago, imo. I think Chicago is a great large US city that is easy to get around on the L and buses, once you figure them all out. You're too used to California cities. ;-)

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    Those are all the reasons why I love big cities as well. The energy in a big city, man, I just love it. While St. Louis isn't as small as your town, it's a weird city. We call it the smallest big city in the country. While there's 2.5 million people in the metro area, it seems that no matter where you go, you either run into someone you know or meet someone who knows someone close to you. It's uncanny, really, and it ALWAYS happens. The options, too, in NYC, are just the best. Want Indian food? Middle Eastern? Vietnamese? Peruvian? Fish and chips? Ethiopian? Whatever you can think of, you can get so easily, and I just love it.

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    Thanks so much for commenting! When I first visited NYC, I was a young, 19 year old who was traveling without my parents for the first time, so I was just awe-struck. Now that I've been back a few more times, I just find more and more I love about it. It just has everything one can ever want, and the things that most people complain about in NYC, the rude people, the hustle and bustle, the endless amounts of people, are all things I love!

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    AGREED!!

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    Make sure you check out the Lima page cause it really does have some cool areas. We met a lot of people who HATED it, but we really enjoyed it. It was our very first city on our RTW, so maybe we're a bit biased, but we found it very enjoyable. Miraflores is a great area with tons of great food and shops and places to wander. Hope you enjoy.

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    Hell yeah! I wish we wouldn't have been so jampacked with prior engagements cause I would have loved to meet up. Next time for sure.

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    Electric is the perfect word to describe it, and besides the food options, that is my number one reason for loving cities like NY.

  • http://twitter.com/MANICinTheCity Allison Joy

    Thanks for a great post about NYC. I love it here, for all the reasons you listed, and more. It feeds my need to connect with people from around the world, without having to leave home (although I am looking forward to a RTW trip someday!!). Glad I discovered you via YTravelBlog. Thanks!!!

  • http://www.journeyofatravelwriter.com Adam

    Thanks so much for commenting Allison! I appreciate your kind words. Good luck on getting our on the road for your own RTW someday. It really was amazing! I'm glad you discovered this site as well. The yTravelBlog is one of my favorites!!

  • http://catenjohn.org.uk Cate

    As a born and bred Londoner I love big cities – Buenos Aires, La Paz and NYC being 3 particular favourites from a very long list. One of the things I like most about traveling as slowly as we have over the last 21 months (generally staying between a week and a month in each place we visited in the 9 countries we've traveled to) is that the longer you spend in a place the more you get to know “your” neighbourhood and the easier it is to have the best of both worlds in a big city – the friendliness of a small town and the fast paced anonymity and amenities of a bustling metropolis. One of the things I love most about traveling is being able to spend a brief time as part of a community whether in a village of 100 or a city of many millions…

Previous post:

Next post:

Real Time Web Analytics